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My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

11.06.2025 07:48

My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

If your children have to take formula or drink too much water at the water fountain, maybe your husband should be grateful anyway though your children have a right to complain and as parents you should do what you can to make sure your children are developing functioning brains and personalities. If you’re trying to do evil slight of hand I think it’s easier on girls though there’s no reason to send any boys through transition just because their parents have a thing for boobs.

My honest guess:

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

Otherwise, it is also possible you gained brain mass from understanding children which is respectable too.

If your breasts provide milk without hurting or poisoning your children your husband should be thankful.

What should you do if a police officer comes to your house and asks for someone who doesn't live there anymore?

Maybe you had implants installed, or maybe you gained cupsizes from lactation.